Championship Time for Seniors
March 2, 2010 by Dennis Chighisola
Let’s just call this a gift – from the Mental Edge and CoachChic.com – to YOU. Good luck, seniors (and this might also be some awesome food for thought to those who will be seniors in the not-too-distant future).
– Dennis Chighisola
Shaun Goodsell, MA – President and CEO of Mental Edge
Championship Time for Seniors
Playoffs for the winter sports season are either happening as I write or about to happen. Teams all begin the playoff run with hopeful expectations, and optimism about their chances for a title. The reality is that more will watch as observers while a few compete for the chance at a title. This article is going to focus on those seniors that will have their seasons, and for some, their careers come to an end. This is always a splash of cold water directly in the face that nobody can really prepare for. For that reason I want to give those that experience this some tips as you grieve the loss of the experience of participating in a sport that you have invested countless hours and sacrificed beyond belief for.
First, take some time and go over your career. Highlight quality moments for yourself. See if you can come up with a couple of your favorite times and carry those with you. In our society we do not take enough time to reflect on periods of time in our lives that provide us stepping-stones for transition and change. I am quite sure that during reflection you will realize that competing has left a mark on you with life lessons and values that will help you create success the rest of your life.
Second, create your sports résumé. If someone were to ask you what your accomplishments were as an athlete be prepared to turn your sports experience into working capital in life. For example, what kind of commitment and work ethic did you bring to your sport? What did you learn about yourself as a leader? How did you respond to adversity and what have you taken away about the value of intentional and focused practice? These are all skills and values that not only translate to success in your sport but in other interests as well.
Third, think about what the next activity or interest you are going to invest in. I believe that investing our time, talent, and passion is important as we dedicate ourselves to learn about ourselves and look to master skills, work cooperatively with others, and set goals for ourselves that challenge us. There is much to be said about reinvesting ourselves.
In life it is important to transition from one thing to another without regret or resentment. Celebrate your successes and use them as springboards to your next stage of life. For all the seniors that have had seasons and possibly careers end this year, thank you for your commitment. I have watched and been inspired by many of you. I wish you well as you move to your next stage of life.
If we can help you take your sports experience and turn it into success in life let us know, 763-439-5246. It is true that success leaves a trail.
Shaun
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Despite (supposedly) being a crusty old hockey coach, I actually had a lump in my throat as I transferred Shaun’s article to this spot. Darn, but I was there as a young athlete, and I’ve had to say good-bye to so many seniors through the years, as both a high school and college coach, each time feeling a little sad but still happy for them.
Also, because this is such an important subject, I’m going to leave it in the Free to Non-members section, just in case you want to send a link to this to someone who deserves this sort of advice.