Hockey Gains Come When You Least Expect Them
August 29, 2010 by Dennis Chighisola
I have a nice young lady to thank for this entry. For, you see, my video on “Incredible Stickhandling” (plus the bonus video) has made it just about around the world — even to a lady hockey player from the UK.
Sometime near when she purchased and downloaded those videos, she expressed concerns to me. (I think she was praying they work, and she was even hoping they worked quickly enough for her next game — gulp, I hate that kind of pressure!)
Anyway, checking in with her earlier today, just to see how she was doing, I sensed she needed just a little more advice — and maybe some support — to go along with what is in those videos.
– Dennis Chighisola
Hockey Gains Come When You Least Expect Them
Now, I know I could take care of this subject with just one very old and time-worn expression, as in, “Rome wasn’t built in a day!” Ya, that would do it. But, not really well enough for me (or my young UK friend).

My UK Friend
Actually, my brief conversation with her on Facebook earlier today caused me to think back to some times long ago, when I came to sense the title of this post was true, that “hockey gains come when you least expect them”.
The most memorable of the events I recalled today had to do with a hockey mom and dad who came to me one day all excited about the play their son had made in a recent game. Paraphrasing the way they explained it to me, I guess their boy went on a rush, got tripped-up, fell to his knees, he kept stickhandling while down on the ice, ultimately recovered to his feet, and then fired a nice shot into the opposition net (which is kinda my description of a highlight reel goal).
I tell this story because the drill we use for practicing dribbling while on the knees was one of probably 25 I used regularly in my weekly skills clinic. Again, it was just one of a bunch of drills, and it probably only received about 4-minutes of attention each week.
As an aside… That particular drill happens to be in my regular collection for a lot of reasons beyond helping a player with the possibility that he or she might fall to the ice and need to keep puck possession. I mean, it’s one of those I group under “asymmetric drills”, in that it forces a player to deal with numerous physical challenges at once (a lot like our game demands). And I also use it to teach puckhandlers to keep adjusting their hands and arms so that their stick-blades stay flat on the ice no matter what posture they’re in.
What I’m really getting at by bringing-up this old story is that I had absolutely no clue if and when that young player would ever get to apply that stickhandling-on-the-knees skill in a game. And I mean that.
Next, I believe I wrote recently about my mom’s lifelong want to reduce her body weight.Â
 Ya, and knowing her oldest son kinda knows his stuff in that area, she was forever calling me for advice. However, the problem has always been that mom wanted the weight off NOW. So she’d starve herself for about 2-days, only to be disappointed when the bathroom scale told her she was the same as before, she’d gained a pound, whatever. By about her third call to me for help, I told her to hide the dawgoned scale, continue her exercise and diet, and only go by how she was feeling on a given day. I probably also told her about the building of Rome, or how “gains come when you least expect them”.
I had a similar (but less frustrating) exchange with a young hockey playing guy this spring, this having to do with his strength program. I sensed that he was as concerned about how he looked as how much strength he gained. However, when he asked whether just sticking with his program — and not worrying about day to day results — was the right approach, I answered, “Absolutely!” And I can tell you that I went overboard to promise him that, “Gains come when you least expect them.”
Going back to the kids in my skills courses, no matter the level, I can assure you that even I don’t know when the worked on skills will kick-in to their games. Nor do I know how long it will take for my High School Prep team’s powerplay or forecheck to gel. There just isn’t a scientific law for this kind of thing — like it takes 3 practices for high school guys to learn their defensive zone coverage, it takes 4 clinic sessions for my little guys to master their snowplow stops, or it takes 6 sessions at home for my young UK friend to suddenly toast an opponent with an “incredible stickhandling” move. (Actually, as a coach overseeing these players, I don’t have any expectations beyond the fact that those “gains WILL come when we least expect them”.)
Oh, another aside did just come to mind here… For, I do almost every year or so run across a player with unique capabilities. I mean, there are the rare athletes who can almost immediately incorporate a new skill into their game. (I once suggested to an 8-year old on a game bench that he might try practicing a new move when he returned home from our tournament. He was one of those rare ones, though, because seconds later he jumped over the boards, grabbed the puck, and executed that very move right their in the game action. Wow.)
As for the rest of us (mere mortals?), all that I can absolutely promise is that sticking with a given discipline is going to ultimately achieve the desired results. Again, there’s no time-frame; it’s just going to happen when the athlete’s mind and body decide so.
In fact, here’s a tip for my far away student… Actually it comes from my late-dad’s bag of coaching tricks (he was a very successful baseball coach). For, dad always said, “Work hard in practice, and then forget everything you learned when you enter the games.” Of course, baseball and hockey are very different sports. However, I can buy his idea of removing too much thinking during a game; it’s far better that a player practice and practice and practice, and then allow reactions — or spontaneity — to dictate once the puck is dropped for real.
I’d suggest that she work at home on those “Incredible Stickhandling” exercises, with little concern for when the different skills will creep into her game. And I’d further suggest that she go to her games to just have fun, to just play on her instincts, and allow nature to take its course. For, as I’ve explained to my mom (ugh), to my students and players, and to young athletes who want to get stronger (or better looking), “gains come when you least expect them.” (Keep plugging away, P.A. You’ll be glad you did — in no time.)
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By the way, I’ll shortly explain further about the availability of certain videos for download. For now, however, here’s the promotional video that goes along with the “Incredible Stickhandling” one….
And here’s a link to where that and a growing list of videos can be purchased…


As sort of a PS to this article, I’ve spoken a lot recently with adult friends who are on their own exercise or diet program. So, I thought I’d share the following…
By the time I’d reached my late teens, I’d already failed at numerous different strength training programs. Ya, I wasn’t much different than my mom (and maybe you), in that I’d scrap something just because it didn’t produce near instant results. It wasn’t until my eyes caught a simple sentence in a strength magazine advertisement that a drastic turn-around happened for me. For, that ad promised “great gains within 90-days”. Hmmmmm… Great gains within 90-days?
The reason that grabbed me was because it was so obvious, really — that anyone would get great results from nearly any program IF they just stuck with it! Make sense?
That’s when I decided that I was going to give a very simple weightlifting program a real chance. And, that’s when I also began ballooning in size and strength. Yup, it was true, that nearly any sane program will produce results, IF you just give it a fair chance.
And that’s the message I want to share with everyone who passes through here today… If you find a weight loss program that seems do-able to you, just toss the scale, give the routine a fair chance, and see what happens in 30-, 60- and 90-days. The same holds true for a strength program or any of the advice you’ll find on this site. Just give it a a chance and see how pleased you’ll be in awhile!