RESPECTING Young Hockey Players
July 15, 2009 by Dennis Chighisola
Although this post SEEMS like it’s entirely geared toward very young skaters, I’d like those who deal with older guys and gals to please drink-in the gist of it. I’ll have a further comment for you at the very end.
– Dennis Chighisola
Okay, I’m not going to go and get toooooo scientific on you. At the same time I do want to first make you aware of a study just released in this Tuesday’s (7/14/09′s) issue of the journal Child Development.
The reason I cite this is because I did quite some time ago make reference to certain beliefs in my earliest posts that dealt with “Critical Periods in Motor Learning”. (The two entries should have frightened those dealing with very young athletes into appreciating the fact that certain windows of opportunity arise during a human’s earliest years, and that once those periods pass, learning given skills can be very difficult, if not impossible.)
Anyway, researchers in the Netherlands now say they’ve found evidence that fetuses have short-term memory of sounds by about the 30th week of pregnancy, and that they develop a long-term memory of sound after that.
Again, I’m not going to get overly scientific here (you can Google this and related studies if you have further interest). And I’m not going to suggest to you that we should all start preparing prenatals for careers in hockey (or any other sport).
What I do want members to appreciate is that learning begins very early in a human’s life, and that some learning even begins prior to birth.
Then, beyond all I’ve said in my earlier two entries (and several others), there’s yet another thing on my mind this morning…
You see, while I think all very young kids are adorable, I’m sometimes turned-off by coaches of very young ones who overdo it in reference to their kids’ “cuteness” (or whatever).
What really troubles me about this? It’s that such coaches can oftentimes use that cuteness as a reason — or an excuse — not to teach the kids in their charge. And, in my mind, they fail to R-E-S-P-E-C-T their young players’ abilities — and maybe their wants — to truly learn more. Yes, I believe little ones WANT to learn.
Now, I hate to bash other coaches, and that’s not really my intent here. What I feel the need to do, however, is to ask them not to accept that cuteness as a reason not to have a plan. Yes, we coaches — and parents — want to see our players gradually move from Point A to Point B over a given span, and there’s nothing to say that we shouldn’t be aiming for Points C and D. That, to me, is respecting our players, or respecting their abilities to learn.
All that said, let me suggest that both parents and coaches combine the best of both worlds… If you get the chance to watch my video on “Must-do Skating Drills for Beginners”, you might notice that I keep that cuteness-thing very much in mind. I mean, I do my fun-loving Mr Rogers routine, and I keep my kids laughing throughout a clinic. What the kids don’t realize — and there’s no need for them to really know it — is that I have a very serious, scientifically-based lesson plan in place. Actually, I’m betting my kids sense that I respect them (as I take them closer to Points E and F?). Yet, I pull it off without any pressures whatsoever.
Finally, the rest of this site is aimed at helping anyone — in this case, parents and coaches — design a training routine based on the very latest in science and the art of teaching. All that information is worthless, though, unless we first have a certain kind of respect for our youngsters’ abilities to learn.
PS: Although this entry appears aimed at very young players, I’d like coaches of older guys and gals to think seriously about that respect-issue. Yes, most older players also have a burning desire to learn more.


Love the piece, Dennis, and as a coach of young ones and high school-aged players, totally agree. I think that little ones can be challenged just as much as their older counterparts, and sometimes without even knowing it. Our charge is to build on their strengths, teach them respect and empower them to do things better each time they step on the ice. And I think it plays true with all kids in any sport or walk of life; leave the baby talk for your pets, kids don’t need it! You’ll teach them more by taking into account their age AND their intellect and respecting both with the right combo of conversation and lesson. Thanks for the post, Dennis.
Great Article! As a High School Coach I owe many many thank you’s to the coaches who coached my players when they were 4, 5, and 6 etc. When they get to my level (as Coach Chic would say, “the dye has been cast”) the skills have been practiced and put into place, my job is fine tuning skills, and putting into place the necessary x’s and o’s to be successful as a team. Many upper level coaches have ego’s, about themselves and that they had ultimately the most to do with their teams success, but I like to think that when my teams win there is an old youth coach out there smiling to see their students succeeding at the higher levels and they deserve the credit as well for that success. It’s the coaches who challenge their young ones with that fun atmosphere on the outside, but that serious work ethic just enderneath the surface that works.